Errors of Commission and Omission

Errors of Commission and Omission

It must be me. I’m like a trip wire, drawn taut between two trees: ageism on the one side and super-spirituality on the other. Barely noticeable until someone trips over me and triggers off deadly barbs. I’m particularly sensitive right now to the needs of...
Loss and Grief

Loss and Grief

I just came back from my monthly friendship triad meet. (Three of us meet once a month to share our lives and to encourage each other in our walk with Christ.) As we shared about the key events that had happened to us since we last met, I shared about the death of my...
Death as Birth

Death as Birth

I had the privilege of seeing son Andrew being born. I understand now why they call it labour. It is an experience that I, as a man, will never understand. It was hard work. I thought of Andrew being born as I saw my mother-in-law dying. As some of you know by now,...
In Dialogue with Life

In Dialogue with Life

One of my best experiences in 2011 was teaching a course on Spiritual Mentoring and Spiritual Direction at Singapore Bible College. Apparently the course had helped the students too. Student feedback was enthusiastic. So I looked forward to teaching the course again....